A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life. – James Allen
Whether it is another person or an inanimate object, we find excuses to explain our choices. I, too often, use the “You only live once” excuse…yes, I said, “YOLO.” I’m not proud of it. Though this may be true, depending on your religious beliefs, it is not a good enough excuse for doing something that gets you off track of your goal.
Somehow we cause ourselves to lose our freedom of choice or action…we enslave ourselves, to ourselves.
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Day 5 of Self-Discipline, take responsibility. Creating systems of success and being prepared to make difficult choices is up to the individual.
As James Allen said, sooner or later we discover that we are the master-gardener of our soul, the director of our life. We are in the driver’s seat of our own life, no one else.
We have to take responsibility for the bad decisions but for the good ones too! We all make mistakes, that’s part of being the amazing, choice making, humans that we are. If we own up to the mistakes it will feel that much better when we fix the problem or make the right decision next time. Ideally, we learn from these experiences!
You can blame the external factor of your choice on, the food item you ate that’s not on your diet, the alcoholic drink you told yourself you weren’t going to have, the workout you missed, the ex-boyfriend you weren’t going to text, or the cigarette you weren’t going smoke. But deep down you know it was you. You are the director, the driver, the captain, the master…YOU are in control. Do not enslave yourself.
No more excuses. Be who you want to be and own up to your flaws because once you understand and forgive yourself, you will be unstoppable.